National Child Abuse Hotline

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The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline offers crisis intervention resources, information and referrals to help for anyone. Call 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) to prevent or get treatment for child abuse. They are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

#gettingthingsdone

Congratulations Americorps on your 20th anniversary. It has been 20 years and over 900,000 volunteers #gettingthingsdone. Here’s the Americorps pledge-inspiring and invigorating.

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Yes means yes

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I just read about California’s “yes means yes” bill. It calls for shared responsibility so that sexual consent isn’t implied if someone is quiet or doesn’t say “no”. Consent means that someone has to say “yes”. By the way, this goes for both males and females because rape can happen to anyone. So, unless there is an active “yes”, it is “no” to sex.

Short-term pain, long-term gain

I hope all of you student athletes who have begun your sports are finding success. I am always impressed with how you balance school work and your sport. It can be hard though, so please get the help you need. For example, successful student athletes I know work with their teachers to manage the work. I don’t mean they don’t have to do the same classwork as other students, they just work with their teachers and coaches to make all of their responsibilities fit. Also, most student athletes have to limit some or a lot of their social activities. This is a good definition of the phrase “short-term pain, long-term gain” when it comes to high school and college sports.

Go Ask Alice sleep quiz

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Go Ask Alice has a great quiz about sleep. I found that I took it and learned more about sleep and some sleep disorders. You should give it a try.

The freshman 15 is a myth

Apparently most freshman college students do not gain more weight than the same age young people who are not in college. So, it’s a myth that college students will gain 15 extra pounds their first year. Despite this, it is important that they eat healthy and make exercise a regular part of their lives. Students should eat 3 meals a day, limit unhealthy snacks and exercise several times a week. Many college students drink a lot of beer which is many empty calories which can cause them to gain weight. I’m encouraged that college freshman aren’t at greater risk than other young people for gaining weight.

Thoughtful and planful about birth control

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I was advising a young person about her birth control options recently. Of course we visited www.Bedsider.org to look at what methods could work for her. It was helpful to show her pictures of the different types and she seemed to appreciate that not every method works for everyone and she had to figure out what was best for her. In the end she decided that she would restart birth control because she knew that she was going to have sex and knew that she didn’t want to be pregnant. If only everyone was as thoughtful as she is!

How to change a roll of toilet paper

This is a funny video for parents. What “instructional video” do you want to make for your children?

A new school year can bring stress

Someone asked me today about the stress some children and young people experience with the start of school. Starting a new school year is a huge transition and those of any age can feel stress even with positive transitions. When a young person is stressed they may feel physically sick, they may get irritable, and they may have trouble sleeping. Parents can figure out what is going on by doing what parents do best-providing love and attention. If the problem is stress, parents can help their child by spending time with them and listening to what they say. It also helps to make sure that the child or young person is eating a healthy diet, has downtime to read for fun or play outside, and is getting enough sleep. Remember, children 5-12 years old need at least 10 hours of sleep, while those over 12 years old need 8.5-9.5 hours of sleep each night.

Stop the texts, stop the wrecks

They’re cooking

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Some schools have started already and already I’ve heard young people complaining about the school food. I don’t know what they are complaining about-the food served in many of the schools I’m familiar with is healthy and delicious. Don’t believe me? Check out the Minneapolis Public Schools menus found here: http://nutritionservices.mpls.k12.mn.us/uploads/aug_sep2014_sm_hs.pdf.

Starting school early is unhealthy for teens

Screen Shot 2014-08-26 at 10.25.47 PMI wonder when all schools are going to change the start of school until 8:30 or later. This week the American Academy of Pediatrics recommended this because natural sleep cycles change when someone becomes a teen so that adolescents need to go to bed later and get up later. This is because their sleep cycles can shift up to 2 hours later from childhood to adolescence. Increasingly, it is clear that it is unhealthy for teens to start school at 7:30 or earlier.

Can’t breathe, can’t live-but even knowing this doesn’t change behavior

I don’t know what to say to young people who have asthma and allergies, but don’t do what they need to do to control their illnesses. For example, I know many young people who will continue to expose themselves to cats and dogs, even though this causes their asthma and allergies to act up. It so curious how they jeopardize their health and their life. I explain why they need to stay away from animals, but often this doesn’t make them change their behavior. If they can’t breathe, they can’t survive-but even hearing this isn’t enough. I’m puzzled.

Admitting ignorance

School is starting for many young people tomorrow and I have advice for them, actually this advice would work for everyone. My advice is to be comfortable admitting when you don’t know something. But, don’t stop there-if you don’t know something, make sure you find the answer. There is one thing I say almost every day, and it goes like this, “I don’t know, I need to look it up.”

How your plate should look

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Put sleep on your calendar

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I’ve noticed that so many young people don’t get enough sleep. Many young people prioritize almost every other aspect of their life-school, work, friends, everything-over sleep. Why not give make time for sleep? You know how important sleep is for doing well in school, work, with friends, everything. Do what you need to do to get enough sleep-maybe you need to put sleep on your calendar.

Watch for bee stings and outdoor poisons

School may be starting soon, but there’s still warm weather left. Head outside and enjoy the rest of summer, but watch for bee stings and outdoor poisons. Here’s a video with more information.

Build a lucky life-put as many steps between you and guns as possible

I once heard a successful businessman tell the story of how, as a teen, he got really angry about how he was treated. He was so angry that he grabbed the only weapon he could find, a sharp screwdriver, and went after the person who treated him badly. Luckily, he didn’t find the guy. It was also lucky that the businessman did not have a gun-he could have killed someone before he had a chance to think about the consequences. So, build a lucky life for yourself by not reacting in anger, and by putting yourself as far away from a gun as possible.

Real voyage of discovery

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The answer is right here

I speak to young people and their families about many vaccines, but the vaccine parents have the most questions about is the HPV one. Below is a graphic that shows why this vaccine is so important, it shows that the HPV vaccine can prevent genital warts and many types of cancers. The answer is right here.

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Let’s Cook with Richard Sherman

It’ll be football season soon. I found this video of Richard Sherman of the champion Seattle Seahawks cooking a healthful lunch. Enjoy.

Suicide is preventable

Suicide is preventable. There are many people and organizations that are able to help keep you safe if you are thinking of killing yourself, including the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. They are always available at suicidepreventionlifeline.org and 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

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Your brain on marijuana-risking addiction and IQ

A recent Columbia University study found that more teens admitted to drug treatment programs were addicted to marijuana more than any other drug. The researchers also say that teens who start smoking marijuana are at particular risk of getting addicted. Also, smoking marijuana as a young person can lower IQ and cause learning, memory, attention and concentration problems. So, I ask you, why risk addiction and your IQ by smoking marijuana? It’s not worth it.

Healthy teeth needed for overall health

I’m amazed at how many young people I meet who do not brush their teeth every day. Healthy teeth are so important for overall health, so do the work of keeping them healthy. Brush and floss everyday, and visit the dentist regularly.

 

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Avoid the enemy of the good

I know that I have to organize the posts on this blog a little better because, if I did, different topics would be easier to find. Oh well, one day. But, for now I keep writing-I’m not going to stop just because all of my work isn’t perfect. It should be the same for many things, don’t let perfect be the enemy of good. Do what you need to do, get things done-they may be good, maybe very good, but not perfect and that’s probably okay.

It’s a jungle out there

It’s like a jungle out there. The roads are dangerous because so many people are distracted by their phones. This morning, again, someone almost hit me as they veered into my lane. When I drove past the car I saw that the guy was looking at his phone. It’s a jungle out there and I’m the innocent prey about to be killed by a predator who keeps looking at his phone as he drives by me!

James Brady, 1940-2014

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Today James Brady died. He was President Reagan’s press secretary in 1981 when he was shot in the head. After he recovered, he and his wife, Sarah, founded the Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Violence. This organization has truly led to “Millions marching to end gun violence.” Lend your voice of support today.

Genesys Works revisited

I met a young intern this week who is part of Genesys Works. I have written about this organization before, but this work training program is worth revisiting. They do such good work. Here’s a video about them.

 

It’s school and sports physical time

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I refer to August and early September as school and sports physical time because so many of these are done at this time of the year. I have two pieces of advice for parents and teens-first, if you need a physical, make an appointment soon because appointments fill up. Second, use that visit with your healthcare provider to get what you need to remain healthy. Get your shots, your medication refills, your STD checks, whatever you need. If you do this, you will start the school year, your sports season ready to go.

Help making yourself stupid

I heard John Hickenlooper, the Governor of Colorado on the radio today. You probably know that Colorado recently legalized the use of marijuana. Anyways, Governor Hickenlooper was asked why he and his staff don’t smoke marijuana. He said, “We don’t need any help trying to make ourselves stupid.” Do you need any help making yourself stupid? I don’t need help doing this either, so I don’t smoke.

Far too many of you dying

I heard the Marvin Gaye song, “What’s Going On” recently and thought of the lyrics when reading about the shooting of young people. This song is really appropriate today.

“Mother, mother
There’s too many of you crying
Brother, brother, brother
There’s far too many of you dying
You know we’ve got to find a way
To bring some lovin’ here today, yeah”

Marvin Gaye, “What’s Going On”

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Distracted riders-foolish and dangerous

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The other day I saw a young person with headphones on, typing on his cell phone, while riding a bike on a freeway overpass. Was he a stunt person? No. Was he doing something foolish and dangerous? Absolutely. I suppose those of us driving by were in danger because we were distracted as we stared at him in horror, but he was the person most at risk. I hope he arrived where he was going safely, and I hope that he and others distracted by their electronic devices learn that the text, the Facebook message, the phone call can wait.

No rule against that

I often tell young people that the time to start birth control is before they have sex so that they can find the birth control that works for them safely. What I mean by safely is that they are safe from having a pregnancy. For sure, if you wait until after you are having sex to think about birth control you could be in trouble. Also, you can be on birth control even if you’re not having sex-there’s no rule against that.

Wear your birth control proudly

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I once saw a young lady whose contraceptive patch, Ortho Evra, was visible on her bare arm. Do you know what I thought? I thought, “Good for you. Wear your birth control proudly!”

Guy’s guide to birth control

Bedsider.org now has a guy’s guide to birth control. Here’s a funny video introduction.

Training your taste buds

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I didn’t know that people need to taste a new food between 14-21 times before they start to like that food. I’m not a picky eater, but this is helpful to know if you are a picky eater, or know some one who is. It really is about “training your taste buds” like Dr. John Anderson, a pediatrician who works with me wrote recently. Here’s more advice from him for picky eaters, http://myhealthnewsletter.com/hcmc/healthematters/July2014/article1.html.

To be or not to be

I was talking today with a young person about the Hamlet soliloquy that begins “To be or not to be” today. I then remembered that great video last year of this soliloquy that was made of snippets from performances students submitted via Instagram. Here’s the link http://bit.ly/1e7lH6B.

The Drum Major Instinct

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Try getting a little extra sleep and see how you feel

“Why not do an experiment, go to bed early and see how you feel?” This is the question I asked a young person I know. He didn’t answer-he just shrugged and walked away. Why not try getting a little extra sleep when you can? You never know-you may actually like it.

My best advice for college students

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The best advice I can give a new college student is to make sure that they get enough sleep. I have found that many college students give up on sleep even though they need sleep to do their best in school. I’m happy to report that a young person I know who is beginning college in the fall won’t become sleep deprived. She said that she needs 8 to 10 hours of sleep now and doesn’t plan to change her sleep habits when she gets to college.

Chew it

 I have always admired the ability to bite off more than one can chew and then chew it. ”

— William DeMille

The choice

In honor of the new Harry Potter story:

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It makes too much sense

A young person I know told me recently that he feels tired in the morning if he gets up at a decent hour, and he feels guilty if he sleeps in late. I asked him why he didn’t try going to bed earlier so that he would get up early enough and not be tired. He said that wouldn’t work. Of course, why would this work? It makes too much sense.

Vamping all night

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Have you heard about vamping? I think there are different definitions, but the one I’m referring to is where someone stays up late, texting or being online and not getting enough sleep. There is an article about vamping on the New York Times website, http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/06/fashion/vamping-teenagers-are-up-all-night-texting.html?src=dayp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=c-column-above-moth-fixed-region&region=c-column-above-moth-fixed-region&WT.nav=c-column-above-moth-fixed-region&_r=0. Sleep is so important for everyone, especially young people, that sometimes I advise parents to lock up cell phones and turn off the internet at night just to try to get their teen to get some sleep. This may be a harsh solution, but it is what some young teens need until they know how to regulate their media use.

What is trichomoniasis

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Human drama of athletic competition

“..the thrill of victory… and the agony of defeat… the human drama of athletic competition…”

Why do people play sports when defeat is possible? Because the opportunity to compete and the possibility of success is so alluring. Anyway, no matter what your ability, you too can push yourself to improve athletically. Get up, get out, get active, get strong!

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Like a girl

A young period told me about a new commercial that, even though it’s a commercial, explores well why it’s okay to be told you do something like a girl.

Jookin for good

I hadn’t heard about jookin, a type of dance, until today, but I’m now really impressed. I’m impressed by the artistry and I’m impressed by the artist Lil Buck. Here’s a video from the New York Times about him. I like how he describes using his gift for good.

Stick with love

“I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.”

Martin Luther King Jr.

Iron Kids

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Iron Kids is a strength training app for iPhones and iPads from the American Academy of Pediatrics. Iron Kids is a safe way for young people to build strength, balance and fitness. The app contains a workout program and instructional videos. The app is only $3.99, so it’s an inexpensive way to become an Iron Kid.